Love found Cara Delevingne when she wasn’t looking for it, the model tells Marie Claire. Delevingne, who will soon be seen in Amazon’s Carnival Row, has been dating actress Ashley Benson for more than a year; engagement rumors have swirled, and reports have surfaced that they didn’t marry, but did commit to each other in a friendship ceremony.

While they largely keep quiet about their relationship, Delevingne reveals how they first fell for each other. 

"We weren't looking for it," she told the magazine. "It was really just very authentic and natural."

The 27-year-old also opened up about her feelings on gender, and how she identifies. 

"The whole idea of gender is so fixed. I just want to, like, explode it," the star told Marie Claire. "I'm not nonbinary, but I feel as much man as I am woman."